What should you do if your ex suddenly calls you up out of nowhere and starts saying all of the things you want to hear? What if your ex suddenly says that they want you back, too? If something seems to be holding you back while you hear those magical words, though, then you might want to take a step back and think about what is holding you back to begin with. Is your ex still dating around? What if they are? Are you able to deal with that?
Either way, if you have doubts in your head, then you have to be very cautious. If your ex knows that you are still in love with them, then they might just be playing with your head to lead you on and make you think that they are interested in a reconciliation when they really aren’t. If this is the case, then you shouldn’t get back together at all, no matter how tempting it may be to do so right now.
A part of you might try to convince you that it won’t be a huge problem in the long run if your ex is dating around. However, you should know that it definitely will be when you get back together – if you even get back together at all, that is. As mentioned earlier, your ex might just be leading you on for the sheer reason that they know they can.
The best thing that you can really do at this point is wait things out. If you aren’t sure about how your ex feels about you or whether they really want you back, you have to wait things out and see what happens. If you rush back into your relationship without knowing what the situation is like; if you find the whole thing confusing to no end; or even if you just think that your ex may be messing with you, then you have to be cautious and just take things slow for now.
Of course, there is also the possibility that your ex might still be dating around because they are technically single at the moment and they might stop dating around once you get back together. Because of these different possibilities, it would be best to just wait things out and see how things play out in the end instead. Either way, don’t forget to be cautious and guard your heart this time around.