Remember that first time he looked at you with those loving eyes? And is that all you are doing now – just remembering? Surely, you miss the feeling you get when he looks straight at you and know in an instant that the spark is still there. Although everyone says that the sparks eventually fade after you get married, it doesn’t mean you aren’t entitled to wanting it. You may not feel like there’s anything wrong with your relationship and just that the sparks aren’t there as they used to be, but you can still get it back and keep your marriage fresh!
You know those old couples you see walking around and looking each other still with that twinkle in their eyes? That’s love, no doubt. You can have that for yourself, too, and here’s how you can do to keep your marriage fresh and get your husband to fall in love with you all over again.
If you feel your husband has lost interest, you have to know something caused this. But before anything else, you have to think about your marriage and how it is at this moment. Ask yourself if you want to make your husband fall in love with you all over again because you really, truly love him and want to be with him for the rest of your life or if you simply want to fix your marriage because you feel it is right to do so. Knowing your reasons for wanting to fix your marriage will already give you an idea whether you are sincere or if you are just feeling obligated to do so.
When you are set on learning how to keep your marriage fresh and get your husband to fall in love with you again, you can start by going back to the beginning. Think about the things you used to do during the first few months of meeting him. Relive those days when the magic came alive. Talk about your first date or give him something that will remind him of how you met or why he fell in love with you. This is a sweet gesture which he will warm up to. He may even go back in time with you and surprise you.
You can also do something exciting with your husband. Taking him in an adventure or changing your look – a new haircut, maybe – will surely keep things interesting and get your husband to notice you more. Try it!